ae606 3/18/96 ---------------------------------- Safety Tips for gay men & lesbians There are certain risks involved with lesbian & gay identified activities. This provides tips on things to keep in mind and how to best protect yourself should a problem arise and to help yourself safer by reducing the risks. _________________ USE COMMON SENSE *Try to leave bars/clubs/community centers with people - preferably friends *If you leave with someone you've just met, introduce him or her to a friend or even the bartender. Make sure that person knows you`ve told other people you`re leaving together. *If you`re unsure about leaving with someone-don`t *When at known lesbian and gay establishments, be alert and be aware of your surroundings. Don`t assume you`re in a safe place. *Walk on well lit streets where there are people and traffic *Avoid shrubbery or doorways that might hide an attacker *Give yourself permission to be "impolite" or "over cautious" *You don`t have to talk to strangers who approach you *Be aware of who is behind you, cross the street or let them pass you ________________ TIPS FOR SAFETY *Attackers expect a passive victim. Carry a whistle in your pocket *While cruising carry as little money, no jewelry and only identification which does not have your address *If you feel unsafe, trust your instincts and act accordingly or leave! *If you see someone being hassled - help them or call for help *Take a self-defense course and practice with a friend ------------------------------ WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE ASSAULTED *Call police as soon as possible - DIAL 911 - tell them that you have been assaulted. *If your keys are stolen with identification: @ don`t return home alone @ if you have a roommate, call home and tell him or her; @ replace your locks * Seek medical help if necessary * Have any police officer you speak with provide you with his or her name, badge number and your file number * Don`t be ashamed-ask a friend to be with you as soon as possible * Try to detail on paper a description of the attackers and the incident * Seek help. Call the gayline which can help you with a referral to: @counselling @legal advice and the police @confidential or anonymous documenting of the assault * Ask that charges be laid if your attacker is caught HELP is available by contacting one of the following groups: Gayline - 238-1717 Distress Center - 238-3311 (24 hours) Distress Center Youth Line - 238-2088 (4-11pm) Rape Crisis Center - 729-8889 (24 hours) Sexual Assault Support Center (for women) 234-2266 (24 hours) Interval House (for women) 234-5181 (24 hours) Legal Aid Office 238-7931 Ottawa Police Victim`s Assistance Program 236-0311 ------------------------------------------------------------ VULNERABLE AREAS ON YOUR ATTACKER`S BODY AND WHAT YOU CAN DO * Scream & Shout * Call for help by shouting "FIRE!" * Blow your whistle * Box the ears or punch the temple * Poke the hollow of the throat with fingers, thumb, cane or umbrella * Jab at solar-plexus with umbrella, cane or elbow * Snap knee into groin, or grab balls, twist & pull * Keep kicks aimed low * Stomp on the top of the foot with your heel * Grab his hair and double him over; strike the back of his neck with your fist or elbow * Tense your fingers and bend them slightly; jab straight into the eyes * Slaw palm of hand or fist up under the nose; push in and up at the same time * Kick knee cap * If grabbed from rear, kick to the knee, scrape the shin, and stomp the instep with your heel ----------------------------- AND AS ALWAYS REMEMBER TO PRACTICE SAFER SEX! -----------------------------